Tuesday, October 27, 2009

"There's no crying in baseball!"--Jimmy Dugan, A League of Their Own

For the LA Angels of Anaheim, the 2009 season is officially over.

It's okay. Really.

I'm over it.

(Mostly.)

I mean, it really sucks that we lost to the Yankees, but it wasn't altogether surprising. They haven't had a World Series championship since 2000 and haven't even been to the series since 2003. For a team where winning is everything, it stood to reason that they would go out and find the best players money could buy. After they completely missed the playoffs last year, they went and spent almost a half billion dollars to sign three guys.

(Yeah. Billion. With a B.)

And they have every right to do that. Just like Wal-Mart has the right to go into small towns and compete the independent stores out of business.

Doesn't mean I have to like Wal-Mart. Or the Yankees. Or losing to the Yankees.

But, you know what? The Yankees are going to the World Series this year and the Angels aren't. It's disappointing, of course, but it's not the end of the world.

And the fact the Angels made it as far as they did, well...that's sort of a miracle anyway.

Before the season even began, the list of injured players was staggering. And then, Nick Adenhart was killed in that horrible car crash the very first week. The team struggled with grief and with a growing list of injuries and problems. It was amazing to see the way they pulled through and went on to win the division for the third year in a row.


And then they beat the Boston Red Sox. The team that's been a thorn in the side of Angels playoff teams since the 80s. It was beautiful.

Most of the so-called professional commentators acknowledged the Angels were a great team, but said the Yankees were going to sweep. The Angels didn't have a prayer against Derek Jeter and Alex Rodriguez and CC Sabathia.

(Okay, so it turned out they were right about CC Sabathia, but whatever.)

When the Angels won Game 3, Fox Sports announcers were visibly disappointed. This wasn't supposed to happen. The Yankees had it locked up. But win they did. And again in Game 5.

It's frustrating that the Angels lost two of those games because of their own errors, but it happened. Can't do anything about that. Just have to move on. And they did. They pushed the Yankees all the way to Game 6.

It's been an interesting season. I was still dating Philip when it started.

(He wasn't an Angels fan, but he was getting there.)

I think I knew even in April that things between us were changing. I just hoped either I was wrong or that it wasn't anything we couldn't come back from. It was a season full of highs and lows. For them, and for me. It was hard, but they kept going and I knew I had to as well.

A few weeks ago, I mentioned that I just hadn't felt excitement about anything in a very long time and I didn't know what it would take to get that back.

Well, it turned out I didn't have to wait so long for the answer.

Watching my team make it to the playoffs gave me something to be excited about. Something I could be passionate about. Something I could care about. It's silly. I mean, I know it's "just a game." But, for me, it's been more than that this year. In some ways, the Angels have saved me.

The night I learned Philip was breaking up with me, I went to an Angel game with Katie. Vladimir Guerrero got hurt and there was almost a fight in the stands. Totally took my mind off my problems. And the next night, when everything had been made official, I went to another game with Marc and Kristi. It turned out to be the most horrible game I've ever been to and we actually committed the cardinal sin of leaving early. But for a few brief hours, at the beginning of one of the most painful times of my adult life, I was able to think about something else.

All summer long, the Angels have been there. They kept showing up, working hard, getting through the tough times and never gave up. And I know they'll be back in March, ready to do it all again. Maybe next year will be better. Maybe it won't. But the team will be back, and so will I.

And so, to the Angels, I say: Thank you. Thanks for an amazing season. Thanks for a memorable postseason. And Chone Figgins, Vlad Guerrero, Bobby Abreu and John Lackey, PLEASE stay.



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58 comments:

  1. I am not a baseball person, but I do know those Yankees like to win.
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  2. I'm glad you aren't heartbroken. I love your picture collages. I need to figure out how do that.
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  3. I couldn't care less about baseball, but I was still hoping the Angels would make it. Seems like the Yankees are always in the Series. ALWAYS.

    My family boycotts Walmart because of their nasty business practices. Yeah, they have the *right* to go into small towns and put Mom & Pop places out of business. But it's a crummy thing to do. We refer to them as "the Evil Empire." Though I prefer "Voldemart."
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  4. I'm a Red Sox fan, but I still wanted the Angels to beat the Yankees! :)
    Now it's time to pull for the Phillies. LOL!
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  5. I've never really been into baseball but I'm sorry your team didn't make it!

    I love that Tom Hanks quote from that movie...that was the best scene!!
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  6. I fell out of love with baseball back in the mid 90's and have never been able to recapture that. In watching Game 2 from the 8th inning to the end, your Halos helped me remember why I liked baseball in the first place. There is history, there is tradition and there is something wonderfully magical about the ballpark, a brat and some peanuts.

    I may never enjoy watching baseball like I once did but I can at least appreciate playoff baseball again.

    So thank you to the Anaheim Angels (LAA just sounds dumb and I'm not going to use it), you restored a little love in this sports fans heart.
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  7. I'm not a baseball fan, but I've enjoyed reading all your posts about it, and this was a great one. I teared up for a minute there. (And yes, I have severe PMS, but whatever. It's still a well written post.)
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  8. What a great post! But I am sorry you have been hurting. Take care of yourself and be Happy!
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  9. "They kept showing up, working hard, getting through the tough times and never gave up. And I know they'll be back in March, ready to do it all again. Maybe next year will be better. Maybe it won't. But the team will be back, and so will I."

    Do you see what I see? (*singing a little like a Christmas carol)

    I see Karen.

    Love ya!
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  10. I'm not into baseball either. We're all about Nascar & the Saints down this way - who rocked Monday Night Football by the way (tho I sure coulda used some anti-anxiety meds by the time the game was over) and are so far still undefeated at 7-0. Just sayin'... :)

    Hope you have a wonderful feature day for SITS!
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  11. I'm not SO into baseball but being from Boston, I can't want the Yankees to win either. Damn Yankees.
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  12. SITS day wonderfulness! :)

    I used to be a huge baseball fan. Being part of that crowd really does take you away from everything else. I'm glad the Angels were that for you. :)
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  13. I'm not much for sports, but if they take your mind off your problems for a few hours, then they sound like a pretty good thing, if you ask me. Happy SITS Day!
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  14. I dont know much about baseball but what a great post
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  15. At least the Angels made the Yankees work for it. We were pulling for the Angels too, of course, anyone but the Yankees. It's so frustrating being a Cleveland fan--they refuse to pay the big bucks to keep our good players and then they go play somewhere else and get into the post-season! I'm sure the players are happy about that though.

    Congrats on your SITS day!
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  16. Ok I have a great friend on Facebook who would share in your adoration of the Angels.. her DOG even dresses up for the game... Seriously you 2 should hook up...
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  17. Hugs!!! You are so going to ROCK 2010!!!!

    (Football fan here, but I understand your passion!)
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  18. I know very little about baseball...let's see..there's a bat and a ball, right? LOL!

    Sorry to hear what you went through. :(

    Love that photo collage!
    Happy SITS day!
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  19. hang in ther girlie! Baseball season will be here before you know it!

    :) NICOLE
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  20. Isn't it great to have wonderful sports like baseball to take our minds off the hurtful things in life!It is so great to hear the old-fashioned passion about baseball!
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  21. I Pulled for the Angels, and now the Phillies. I wish Jorge Pasada didn't catch for the Yankee team...

    Phillies are gonna have to work hard to win this year.....but it could happen. ;-)
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  22. Damn Yankees!!

    {happy SITS day!}
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  23. I'm so not into baseball, so I couldn't care less who wins. However, I do LOVE that movie! Tom Hanks was the best thing in it and I still laugh every time I watch it.
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  24. I honestly haven't watched a baseball game in at least 10 years! Crazy, huh? Just not my thing.

    I liked reading your post about it though.
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  25. Not a baseball fan here either but I do halfway keep up with the ATL Braves and the season they went from last to first and then to the World Series was amazing!! Everybody was crazy. Glad your team was their for you when you really needed them. Tough times do come upon us sometimes. Hope you are better now. Happy SITS!
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  26. @cheapchichome. Happy SITS day. At least you didn't cry, right?
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  27. Those Damn Yankees! I'm rooting for the Phillies....:)
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  28. Thanks for sharing from your heart!
    Happy SITS Day!
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  29. Just stopping by from Sits..and saw your post title..theres no crying in baseball...i had to read!! I have said that so many times...I am a RED SOX fan..so you can understand where that comes from. I love the sounds of baseball..it reminds me of home wherever I am..I feel safe with the noise of the batter connecting and hush of the crowd..the cheers, jeers and even the commentators, it makes me feel safe. Its my dad brought back to me from heaven.

    Baseball is beautiful

    come visit..My Best Day Ever"
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  30. I think you and my husband would make great friends. I don't get into baseball (okay, I like the food portion of the event) but he despises the Yankees.
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  31. hmmm... sorry I zoned out. Baseball season is my shopping season! LOL

    Happy SITS day!

    sweetjeanette.blogspot.com
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  32. I grew up as an Army brat, but wherever we lived we always went to baseball games whether it was the closest national team or just a local farm team. I love baseball and I can see how going out to a game with friends and just soaking in the atmosphere can take your mind off almost any problem!
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  33. Even though my husband is trying really hard, I'm not really a baseball person. But I do love that quote and I do love A League of Their Own!
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  34. I'm glad you had something to help you through a painful part of your life. Boys come and go, but a girl's baseball team... they're forever (unless they're the Mariners and keep threatening to leave).
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  35. Great post title!

    I would have had to stop and read it (even though I'm not so crazy into baseball -- I'm more of a hockey gal myself). ;)

    Happy SITS Day!
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  36. Boy, would my hubs love you. He played pro, so needless to say baseball is big in our house...except with me. Ah ha ha
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  37. Happy SITS day!

    I'm a huge baseball fan, too! Cardinals-variety-- and we had a great season, then totally choked in the playoffs!

    There's always next year!

    come visit my blog---
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  38. I haven't got a clue about baseball, but it seems that that sport really rocks your boat. Well, good on ya!

    Happy SITSday!
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  39. *coughs* I'm a huge Yankees fan. I live in NY how could I not be? It's too bad because I really like your blog lol.
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  40. As a California transplant in Idaho, I'm so jealous of your proximity to the Angles and Disneyland. It truly is the happiest place on Earth...
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  41. I'm not a baseball fan, but I do understand the healing power of sports!
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  42. It's so amazing how your connection with your team can help with life. I went to a few Angels games this season and it was pretty exciting. Best of luck next season!
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  43. I'm a Cubs fan. You don't need to tell me about disappointment.
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  44. I am so NOT a baseball fan, but since I am from Boston then I am kinda loyal to the Red Sox. LOL

    Anyways, I am sorry your team lost! :(

    And I really did enjoy reading your post!
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  45. Alright, I'm not gonna lie. You basically lost me with all the baseball talk. But I DO admire your passion!
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  46. I'm not crazy about any sports, but my fiance is a HUGE baseball fan. He's a Braves fan, but he cheers for any team playing against the Yankees. LOL!
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  47. I commend you for standing by your team ~ whether they make the World Series or not!

    Jenn @ rookno17.blogspot.com
    stopping by from SITS
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  48. I feel ya, we hate the Evil Empire as well. We're Red Sox fans so we've had plenty of suffering to endure. And we're Red Sox fans in LA so every time I got to see them this year they were playing the Angels, and they lost.

    The beauty of baseball (and all sports) is that we get to start over again next year. And just remember, even if they win the whole thing, say it with me now, it doesn't matter because the Yankees Suck! :)

    Alex @ www.MaWhats4Dinner.com
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  49. If it makes you feel any better, I'm a native New Yorker and I couldn't care less if the Yankees win. I'm sick of A Rod anyway. :-)
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  50. Great pics - better luck next season!
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  51. i'm not much a baseball gal but my husband is a big football guy so I feel your pain.
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  52. Just think...if you were a Yankees fan, this post would have sounded much happier! Just kidding, sorry your team didn't make it this year, better luck net season!!!
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  53. OK, so I'm reading happily through some of your other posts and I'm like, "this chick is so cool!" Then, this dyed in blue Yankee girl hit this post, and I'm like "uh, oh..." But you know what? After reading it, I feel like we have something huge in common--I feel exactly the way about my Yankees that you do about your Angels...and I really respect that--and your well written post.
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  54. I love the title of this story! Love that movie!!!!! lol!!!! Hope you do better next season!

    yours truly,
    Lady Lex
    ineedprettythings.com
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  55. I love that you're so into baseball! I try for my hubby but I'm not very good at getting into it.
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  56. I love me some baseball! One of the only sports I could ever get into. I even love playing it.
    Sorry your team didn't win :(
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  57. Karen - I LOVE your blog!!!! And, I LOVE the Angels!!! Today Bobby Abreu was signed again for another two years. Vladdie is one of my favorites, so I sure hope he stays. And, of course, Figgins and Lackey too.

    A friend sent me a link to your blog, and I'm glad she did. I have one, too - mostly about Gratitude (that's my "thing"). Here's the link: http://gifts-of-gratitude.blogspot.com/
    (Which reminds me - I'm overdue for another post.)

    Looking forward to reading more from you. Ginny
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  58. So here I am posting after the Yankees won. I live in NY and am a Mets fan - so imagine what that's like. We have to be so realistic and humble because we just don't win. But like the Angels in your post - we try and so do I.

    I love this post too.

    Here's to another season of trying.

    Happy SITS day,
    xx

    Cristina
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