Monday, December 28, 2009

The Best Christmas Gift

I got some really awesome swag this year. For sure.

Season 5 of LOST to (nearly) complete the collection.

Glenn Beck's book Arguing With Idiots.

Michael Bublé and the 2nd Glee soundtrack.

Disney trading pins and a gift card.

An iPod Nano.

Yeah, I have finally joined the rest of the free world and am now the proud owner of a BEAUTIFUL bright pink iPod Nano. I seriously love it.

But the best gift I got this year is one that couldn't be wrapped in paper and displayed beneath the tree.

On the night before Christmas Eve, Katie and I decided to go to Disneyland one last time for 2009. Our passes are blocked out until January now and I really wanted to enjoy the festive decorations once more. We were surprised by how busy it wasn't that night and showed up around 8:30.



For a few months, my favorite Fantasy Land ride was closed off: The Storybook Land Ride. I love this little boat trip through the miniature world of some of the best fairytale characters: Alice in Wonderland, Aladdin and Jasmine, Pinocchio, Cinderella, Ariel. The ride was closed while they made "tiny" improvements, which always made me giggle since everything on the ride is miniaturized.

It opened in time for Christmas, but I had yet to ride and dragged Katie suggested we go there first.

We got in line and, almost immediately, a girl of about 8 stopped me, her eyes wide as she saw the pins on my pin trading lanyard.

"Wow! You have a lot!" she said.

"Do you trade pins?" I asked.

"No, we don't," she said. Then she turned to her mother. "Mom! Can they get in line with us?"

Katie and I smiled and I told her we were going to the end of the line, but that perhaps we would see her again.

And we did. As the line crossed back and forth, we kept spotting the family and chatting with them. And along the way, we learned they were visiting from Arizona for the week because Dad had passed away several months earlier and two of his favorite things were Christmas and Disneyland. What better way to remember him than to celebrate his favorite holiday at his favorite place?

We lost track of them eventually, but Katie and I just knew we had to invite them to our house for breakfast Christmas morning. She did a mental run through the contents of our refrigerator and pantry and we had plenty of food to throw together a nice meal. We agreed that if we saw them again, we would extend the invitation.

Skipping a few minor details, we ended up on the same boat and Katie immediately invited the mom, whose name is Kristine, for Christmas breakfast. She asked her oldest daughter if she was interested, and got a nod back. Katie and I were excited.

As soon as we got to the end and exited, we stopped and I gave Kristine my phone number. After a bit more chatting, Katie and I and Kristine and four of her daughters (2 sons and another daughter were elsewhere) made our way to the Haunted Mansion/Nightmare Before Christmas. The two youngest girls took to me and Katie in a way that shocked their mom. It was very sweet.

As we walked, one of the girls talked about her sister's boyfriend being away on a mission.

"Where's his mission?" I asked.

"Minneapolis."

"So, if he's on a mission...you wouldn't happen to be LDS, would you?"

Tiana, the oldest daughter and girlfriend of aforementioned missionary, said yes. I laughed and told them I was, too, and that I had also served a mission.

"MOM!" the younger daughter screamed. "MOM! They're members! They're LDS!"

That sealed the deal. We were friends for life.

We went on the Haunted Mansion ride, took the train back to the end of Main Street, and again expressed our hope that they would come to our house on Christmas morning. Kristine said she'd call and after about three dozen hugs from the youngest girls, we bid them good night and parted company.

Katie and I were so excited that night as we went back home and told David all about it. We were still excited the next morning, Christmas Eve, even though we hadn't heard from them yet and thought they might decide not to join us after all.

I finally left for my mom's house to spend Christmas Eve night with Marc and Kristi, The Nephew, Mom and her hubby. As I sat in bumper-to-bumper on the freeway, my phone rang. It was Kristine!

She apologized that they wouldn't be able to make it because she had spent most of the day feeling very sick, but she thanked us again. I asked if she needed anything and she said they didn't, but I insisted that she call me immediately if she needed us to help her.

About two hours later, just as we were sitting down to the beautiful turkey dinner my mom had prepared, my phone rang again. Tiana, the older daughter, had also fallen ill and really wanted a blessing. I assured her I'd get someone there as soon as possible, and called upon Katie to recruit her husband and brother-in-law.

When I got home that night, Katie bounced with excitement as she told me all about their visit with the family and that, even though they weren't coming over in the morning, we were going to make breakfast and take it to them.

Which is what we did. Along with a really cute gift Katie had found.

We spent a bit more time with the family, the girls thrilled to show us what Santa had brought, and saying our good byes. They were heading home the next day and we wouldn't get to see them again on this trip. But Kristine did insist that we come and see them on our next trip to Arizona.

I know I will.

This Christmas has been a little bit hard for me. The year really didn't end the way I hoped it would and I've spent a lot of time thinking about how happy I was last Christmas compared to this year.

I wanted the holiday to have some meaning, to be special. I thought of volunteering in a soup kitchen or something, but somehow time got away from me and I never made the calls to find out where to go or what to do.

That's why meeting this family was such a great gift. I know we did something to help them out, but, really, I felt like this was for me. I felt like my Heavenly Father was letting me know that he is mindful of me and he gave me the chance to see how blessed I am and how much I have been given.

This year may not have gone the way I wanted it to or hoped it would, but I know that He is watching out for me and that He knows what I need.

And that is the best Christmas gift I could have possibly been given.



But now, if you'll excuse me, I'm off to download songs to that iPod...


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40 comments:

lifeissweet16 said...

I didn't know you were Mormon. One of my best friends since middle school is Mormon. I LOVE her whole family and all of her inlaws. They're some of the most amazing people I ever met in my life.

That's such a sweet and heartwarming story, too.

I hope this year turns out better for you than last!

Sarah said...

What a special story! Thank you for sharing it:)
Ryan and I went on the Storybookland ride for the first time EVER for the both of us this last trip. What a cute ride:) I can see why you like it so much! I hope that you have a very happy new year!!!

Kristina P. said...

What a cool, cool story! Oh, and I'm coming to Disneyland in February. Can't wait!

The Boob Nazi said...

I agree with everyone. What a great story. You never realize how many of us there are out there!

Gina said...

Ohhhh! I love this story!! It totally makes up for you getting Glenn Beck's book. ;) Just kidding...you know I love you and learn so much from your views.

Susan R. Mills said...

What a wonderful story. And, yes, that is the greatest gift, isn't it?

Janet said...

Awesome story!

Pam said...

What a heartwarming story. I'm so glad you had a way to "give back" this Christmas. And congrats on the iPod. Enjoy it. And here's hoping that 2010 is your best year yet.

Katherine said...

What a great story!

Last year, we talked about going to Disneyland for Christmas. Unfortunately, the plans fell threw, but some year, we will definitely do it.

And seriously? A pink Nano? I'm fully jealous right now. (Although I'm pretty happy with my Wii Fit!)

foxy said...

What an incredibly touching story! Thanks for sharing, Karen, and cheers to a great new year!

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Just Playin' said...

Great story! Encourages us all to reach out a little more and connect to those around us. Hope next year is everything you want!

Roberta said...

Oh my gosh! Your story totally touched my heart! Serioulsy! Now, go submit it to the Church Magazines for publication!
and ps...please check your inbox on your facebook page!

JoeyRes said...

I feel the same way as 2009 is coming to a close. It doesn't happen according to our plan, but He is guiding us at every turn.

How thoughtful for you to invite that family into your home.

Kelli said...

That is the coolest story! Thanks for sharing that! I know that in our darkest hours Heavenly Father is there to remind us to forget ourselves and find others to serve. Sometimes [for me] it has comes in the form of a good friend like you!

Mommy Taylor said...

Aww that's such a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing it with us. :)

Sounds like you had a wonderful Christmas.

mub said...

I hope you'll look back on this Christmas and only see the good memories and new friends you made and not the disappointments! I have a really hard time with Christmas and so I'm trying to take at least ONE positive thing from the holiday each year so that I don't grow to loathe it completely *L*

singedwingangel said...

I would have done the exact same thing . No wonder we get along so well on here lol.. So glad that God showed you how much you mean to him and to someone else..

Lyn said...

Happy Holidays Karen. May this new year bring us more friends & love unconditional. We are all great people Karen.

Megan said...

What a cool story!!! Disney really is such a magical place...the most amazing things can happen there. So glad you made some new friends and that the holidays had a little more meaning for you as a result. :-)

Helene said...

I'm so envious that you live so close to Disneyland and can go anytime you like! We went once at christmastime and everything seemed so magical!

What a wonderful thing you did for that family! And it's such a fantastic way to end the year...doing something nice for someone else that makes you feel good!

greedygrace said...

What a beautiful story and a great message! Glad you received such a nice gift (and glad you liked the nano, too!)

Angelia (Texas) said...

Wow, sounds amazing and you did good. He is looking out for you and your Christmas was blessed.

And a pink ipod? Can't beat that! Woot!

Paula said...

How awesome that you found each other and you were able to help them out.

thanks for visiting my site!

JDaniel4's Mom said...

You had a full holiday. Glad it went well.

Sarah said...

What a beautiful story!

Hampers said...

Thanks for sharing the best Christmas gift and the story was awesome. Enjoyed it very much. keep up the good work.

Jennee said...

You lived my dream Christmas. I get frustrated at Christmas because families can be so selfish and forget about those that don't have family. I always think that I am going to do something nice and kind for someone on Christmas but I never do because I don't have my eyes open to the need...or maybe it's because I lock myself indoors all day and lay on the couch. I'm glad you got the opportunity to make an imprint on someones life! That is pure awesomeness!

Theta Mom said...

Wonderful story, sounds like your holiday was a success! We took my son to Disney World in Florida and it was quite eventful because we dragged my baby girl there.
D-r-a-m-a! Anyway, thanks so much for stopping by Theta Mom!

Queenie Jeannie said...

What a beautiful post!!! Thank you for sharing it with us!

Everyday Mom Ideas said...

Wow that is a wonderful story. Every year I always feel like there is something missing if I haven’t given enough of my self in service or deeds. What a great opportunity for you to feel to true Christmas spirit.

Vierra and Bianca said...

This is a very heart warming story! Sounds like you had a great Christmas.
~ V

marfmom said...

i LOVE randomly finding other Mormons, both in real life and on the blogosphere. soon as you mentioned "mission" i thought "i bet they are LDS!" clearly Heavenly Father was watching out to put your two families in place together. what a christmas blessing!

Eml said...

That's a great story, K-Lo! I'm glad you had a good Christmas holiday. Enjoy that iPod! :)

Emily Clark said...

That last comment is from me! Ha ha

mommyof4 said...

I have an award for you at http://kats-confessions.blogspot.com/
Happy New Year!

Sandy said...

What a great store! Best wishes for a happy, healthy 2010.

Valerie Neal said...

Thanks for commenting on my salt story, I see that it would be a good one for confession Wed., as I have several of those I may jump in on that with you. I'm not sure if I stopped by from the SITS link up, and thus brought you to my blog (I have slept since then) but if I did don't worry about coming by and commenting on my page, if I didn't well you already commented so no sweat. I think I'll grab a cup a cup of coffee and check out your list of blog of the week, that's a neat idea.

I loved your Christmas story!!! My kiddos are in a kind of "ungrateful" stage and I told a few people if it were up to me we would load up and go to the Salvation Army to serve breakfast Christmas morning, so they could see just how fortunate they were to get only 2 gifts this year. I guess I'm getting old and becoming like my father (God help me) we were blesses this year, we did not feel the economic crunch until November, and we still have food, electricity, & a place to live. Some live in their car. You were in the right time at the right place to help a family in need, how wonderful! To be the hands of Christ at Christmas and to show His love, as Linus said "That's what Christmas is all about Charlie Brown".

Eternal Lizdom said...

I love love love love love this story!! God is great!

k80 @ onegirlsjourney said...

Thanks for stopping by my blog, Karen. I loved reading your story. How cool how God works things out...so amazing! Thanks for coming by! All the best!! :)