Monday, December 14, 2009

O Christmas Tree

(Image borrowed from www.theage.com.)

Smith & Brown Christmas Tree Farm was just about the coolest place on Earth when I was a kid.

Every year, well before Thanksgiving, my family would bundle up in our California warmest--

(You know. Jeans instead of shorts and sneakers instead of sandals. Some years we even had to go all crazy and wear sweatshirts.)

--and pile into the car to head up Central Ave. in Chino to select that Family Christmas Tree.

My brother, Marc, and I would run up and down rows and rows of trees. Some were even taller than Dad, while others were too small and would maybe be ready next year.

I remember the excitement as we found The Tree, only to discover that the tag had already been torn as some other family had laid claim to it before we could get there. We'd continue the search, finding another that was Absolutely Perfect...until Mom discovered the big hole on the side. Which would lead to the debate over whether that part could be hidden against the Living Room wall.

Some years, finding the right tree was quick and easy. Other times, it could take an hour or more. It was a big lot.

We'd finally make our selection, tear off the tag and then, together, march to the check stand to pay for our prize. But we didn't get to take it home yet. We'd wait. Just a couple of weeks. So that it would be the freshest tree possible.

After Thanksgiving, sometimes the first week of December, Dad would take us kids to pick up the tree while Mom stayed home to pull out the ornaments and the dozens of boxes of decorations she had managed to accumulate. We'd get to the lot, follow a chainsaw wielding high school kid to the tree that always seemed bigger/smaller/fatter/like it had fewer needles than we remembered. But we didn't care. The kid with the chainsaw would cut the trunk and Marc and I always shouted "Timber!" just before it toppled to the dusty earth.

We spent the rest of the day watching Mom and Dad argue over whether it was straight enough and then the proper balance of lights and then Mom would fiddle with all the ornaments Marc and I had hung with such care.

(Apparently, 5 baubles on one branch was just too much.)

The Smith & Brown Christmas Tree Farm was sold some years back. The five acres or so of beautiful evergreens is now a shopping center and an apartment building.

And now my mom has an artificial tree.

The times are a-changin'.

Which of your old Christmas traditions has faded away over time?

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15 comments:

  1. Artificial pre-lit trees are the best! :)

    One of my favorite Christmas traditions when I was growing up was Breakfast with Santa. It took place in the mall. After we ate and told Santa what we wanted for Christmas, we'd all go pick out a new ornament. It was always a great family outing. I'm hoping to carry on the tradition with Isabelle in the next few years. :)
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  2. We always had a real tree growing up and I swore I would never have a fake one. Until I had my own house and had to pay for it and clean it up. I love my fake tree!
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  3. We always had a real tree until they got tired of cleaning my the mess at the end of the year. So now we use a fake tree that my cats love to mess with.
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  4. We went to Warren's Christmas tree farm when I was a kid. It's funny because when I met my future husband, I discovered that his farm backed up to the Christmas tree farm. Small world. Both the Christmas tree and my husbands farm were sold five years ago for a neighborhood development. We built a new farm somewhere else, but the Christmas tree farm is gone for good. It makes me sad.
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  5. The tradition of my family being together on Christmas morning, to have breakfast & mimosas, and open gifts is a tradition no more. My mom moved to Nevada, my sis is engaged and must start new traditions with her fiance's family, and me, The Little Guy and Hubby are now left to our own Christmas morning devices. We will follow up with my family on the Monday after Christmas to have what we call 'Fake Christmas.' But, you gotta do what you gotta do, I guess.
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  6. Our artificial tree has very realistic looking needles - they're getting much better at making those puppies.

    My dad used to dig the tree out - roots and all. We live in southwestern PA and had to dress in I-don't-want-frostbite gear. Hence, I unfurl a pre-lit tree and love it.
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  7. We've never done the "cut down the tree" thing, although I've always wanted to. There was only one Christmas tree lot that I knew of close to us, and the trees were gone long before I thought of looking for one. We thought about doing it here in Iowa, but the nearest one is 1 1/2 hours away, and it just felt like to much work.

    Someday, I think we'll still do it, even with our plan to move to an artificial tree next year.
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  8. My husband and I both went with our families (to the same farm, no less) to cut down a tree as a kid. It's one of my fondest memories...there was a hayride, hot cocoa, and we always got to pick out one ornament in the little shop on the farm. And yet I still don't have much of a desire for a real tree. Maybe when L is a little older!
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  9. We had a very similar tradition at a tree farm in MI when I was growing up (though our tradition included snow, a horse drawn carriage, and hot chocolate). The tree farm is still there, I think, but my parents are no longer together, and I've moved on with my own family. And we, sigh, use an artificial tree for environmental reasons.

    I'm actually quite curious as to how our family Christmas back at my mom's house is going to go this year . . . We shall see . . .
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  10. Sad, that made me want to cry.
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  11. How sad! I'm so sorry :( At least you have your memories to cherish!

    As for this little bit:
    (You know. Jeans instead of shorts and sneakers instead of sandals. Some years we even had to go all crazy and wear sweatshirts.)
    HAHAHAHA YOU'RE SO RIGHT!! That's exactly what I've been doing recently! Oh SoCal...

    P.S. -- LOVE the Josh Groban Christmas blaring from your iPod thingy!
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  12. This post made me feel all warm and fuzzy till I read about the lot being turned into shopping center/apt. building. It's never the same as when you were growing up, huh? My mom would get 7 foot real trees, from the hallway of our apartment building - or so I thought because we never went, she just came home with them - and now I have a family of my own and they're all allergic to real trees. So, I just spray Christmas scented sprays and get scented pine cones. It's not the same AT ALL!

    xx

    Cristina
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  13. Stopping by from SITS. Growing up, the youngest of 5, Christmas meant siblings coming home, everyone gathering in the living room, opening presents, eating, friends coming over.
    Now, Mom is on her own, siblings never visit her (I stay w/her 3 days/week). My Hubster's family not into traditions so very haphazard holidays.
    But, finally, a Grandson. My yearning for traditions is back in gear with him. He makes my heart smile as he loves helping to bake, looking @ lights, singing carols, etc.
    Different tradition, but wonderful just the same.
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  14. That sounds like a great tradition. I grew up on 30 acres of beautiful Oregon land. We'd go out on our property and pick out our own tree to cut down. My mom would always tease me because the tree would always be so charlie brown pathetic. One year my stepdad even drilled a hole into a tree and gave it branch implants! Now they buy trees at the local lots. I haven't been home for Christmas in years, I always come home a week after, and I teased mom that I wanted a Charlie Brown tree again but she refused! ;-)
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  15. Hahah loved this post! My mom always re-arranged the ornaments we hung too!
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